by
Ulyana Dejneka
As a romance
writer, the fact that I have found my niche in erotic romance is something I
still find surprising given my childhood. I grew up in the suburbs of northern
New Jersey, the oldest of three children. I attended Catholic school from
kindergarten to college. I was the shy one, the quiet one, the good girl who
never misbehaved.
Okay,
maybe it really shouldn‘t be such a
surprise then.
Let me
state from the start: erotic romance and erotica are NOT the same thing. Erotic romance is about the relationship between
two people in which sex plays a role in the story, while erotica focuses on the
protagonist‘s journey of self-discovery through sex and does not always end in
an HEA or HFN.
There are
two important components to erotic romance:
1. The sex
and the story MUST balance each other out. This is the reason for the title of this article.
Let‘s break down the term “erotic romance” itself. “Erotic” refers to the
sexual component of the story, while the “romance” refers to the relationship
between the two leads. Without one, you cannot have the other. If there is not
an even balance in an erotic romance, the reader will become bored very
quickly. Sex in erotic romance has to have justification for it, and not just
be sex for the sake of sex.
2. The
hotter, the better. Now
it‘s time to talk about the fun part of writing erotic romance. Don‘t be afraid
to push the boundaries when you‘re writing a sex scene. Specifically, I‘m
referring to the language you can use to describe genitalia or the action verbs
involved in a sex scene. The best critique an erotic romance writer can get is
“Make it hotter.” That happened to me,
and I let my sex flag fly! This former Catholic schoolgirl let loose, and it
was incredibly liberating.
If you‘re
interested in writing erotic romance, I‘d like to offer one important piece of
advice: READ, READ, READ!
I
discovered erotic romance thanks to a review of SINFUL by Charlotte
Featherstone in RT Book Reviews,
which in my opinion is one of the best historical erotic romances ever written.
Other historical erotic romances to check out are the House of Pleasure series
by Kate Pearce and the Mistress Matchmaker series by Jess Michaels. On the contemporary
side, Sylvia Day‘s Crossfire series should be at the top of your list, followed
by Raine Miller‘s The Blackstone Affair series, FORBIDDEN FRUIT and THE LOVERS
by Eden Bradley, and ON DUBLIN STREET and UNTIL FOUNTAIN BRIDGE by Samantha
Young.♥
AUTHOR THE AUTHOR: Ulyana
Dejneka writes contemporary erotic romance under the pen name Flora Vesna. She
holds an MFA in Creative Writing (fiction) from Adelphi University. She is a
member of RWA-PRO and can be found on Twitter: @floravesna.
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