Let’s get
this out of the way: a lot of us were upset by the outcome of the presidential
election. I certainly was. Without getting into the politics of it too much, I
woke up on November 9 feeling disappointed and sad and afraid of what the
future holds.
Even if
that was not your experience, a lot of us have faced hardships this year. We’re
human and life happens sometimes. A death in the family. A big move. Losing a
job. Divorce.
I don’t
say this to bum you out, but more because we all go through rough times. And
romance novels have helped a lot of people through some dark times.
The night
after the election, I went to a book talk at a bookstore in Brooklyn. When I
walked into the store, everyone there looked like they were headed to a
funeral. The talk moderator began the discussion by acknowledging the pain a
lot of us felt, but then said, “Now we’ll talk about romance novels.”
The
discussion was positive, about things the authors on the panel love, about
books, about hope. Romance is, after all, a genre that a lot of people enjoy
because the happy ending is guaranteed. Even when books get dark, when you
can’t imagine how the protagonists will ever end up together, you still know in
the back of your mind that everything will work out.
And, you
know, after that talk, I felt better. I felt hopeful. I felt like everything
might be okay.
I’ve seen
this expressed elsewhere, too. A number of our chapter members participated in
NaNoWriMo this November, and in the little Facebook group we’ve been using to
keep up with each other, a few authors said they were glad they had their
novels to focus on, because channeling their energy into a story with a happy
ending was therapeutic.
We read
to escape. We read to cope. We read romance because the books are stories of
love and hope, where good triumphs over evil, where people overcome tremendous
obstacles to live happily ever after.
There’s
something really powerful about that.
I’ve read
and written to get through my own hard times in the past. I’ve written stories
to cope with everything from my ex getting married to a relative dying of
cancer. I moved this summer, and when my anxiety was at its highest, I read
category romance novels, because they were sweet little reminders that things
would work out. Even now, I’ve been binging on historical romances to divert my
attention from the news, and each one has kept me entertained from the first
page to my happy sigh after reading the last.
That’s
the real beauty of the genre. That’s why we love it, right? Romance novels are
there for you when times are good, certainly, and I’m happy to talk about them
with writers and readers anytime, be the times joyful or difficult. But books
like these are really vital when times are hard.
So keep
writing those books. Keep reading. Keep talking. Because the world can always
use more hope, and that’s what we offer.♥
Kate McMurrayis an award-winning author of gay romance and an unabashed romance fan. When
she’s not writing, she works as a nonfiction editor, dabbles in various crafts,
and is maybe a tiny bit obsessed with baseball. She has served as President of
Rainbow Romance Writers, the LGBT romance chapter of Romance Writers of
America; and as Vice President of RWA/NYC. She lives in Brooklyn, NY. Visit her
at www.katemcmurray.com.
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