There was recently an
article on the Book Riot website arguing in favor of romance novels without
happy endings. I read it and thought, “But happy endings are the one requirement!”
RWA’s definition of
romance is pretty loose. A romance novel must have a central romance story and
an emotionally satisfying and optimistic ending. Most readers interpret the
latter as the romantic couple (or ménage, etc.) ending up together.
But that still gives
writers a massive amount of room to tell stories. Characters can fall in love
in Regency or Medieval England, in 1920s New York, in the Wild West, in China,
in India, in Africa, in South America, in the future, in space, in some
imaginary place. These characters can be rich or poor or somewhere in between,
they can have a whole host of interesting jobs, they can solve crime or make
scientific discoveries or save the universe. Romance heroes and heroines can
have any background, can be Irish or African American or Japanese; they can be
vampires or cat shifters or aliens; they can be Christian or Jewish or Buddhist
or atheist. The characters can be a man and a woman, a man and a man, a woman
and a woman, they can be trans or asexual, or there could be three people, or
seven, who all fall in love with each other. They can express their love
physically behind closed doors, explicitly on the page, or not until they’re
married.
The only limit to what
happens in a romance novel is that there must be a love story at its heart and
we need that happy ending (or at least a happy for now). Otherwise, the only
limit is what your imagination can cook up.
So why do we periodically
get these think pieces arguing that literally
the one thing that defines romance as a genre should not hold true?
The author of the Book
Riot piece argued that the happy ending, while satisfying, does not always
reflect reality. Sure, that’s true. In real life, some great romances end in
divorce or death. But love stories with unhappy endings can be found aplenty in
the literary fiction section of the bookstore. Why would one argue for romance to change?
Romance authors on Twitter
had theories. For example, sometimes these think pieces about romance novels
not requiring happy endings come from authors who write lit fic but want
romance money, so they try to argue that the book they’ve written belongs on the
romance shelf where the hungry readers buy books, even if the book doesn’t
technically fit the definition. Or you get an author who assumes all romance is
trite and formulaic and argues their new, edgy approach to the genre—an unhappy
ending, how revolutionary!—is going to change everything.
But we as romance readers
know that the genre is rich and full of talented authors. Let’s keep that as a
given. Because romance has two requirements: central love story, happy ending.
And that’s it.
We romance readers and
writers know, the guarantee of a happy ending is not a spoiler. For us, it’s
about the journey, not the destination, right? And given all the room that
still gives to tell stories, if you can’t fit a romance into those wide
boundaries, you’re the one lacking in creativity, not the genre.
I am all for pushing genre
boundaries. But if you took the whodunit plot out of a mystery, what are you
left with? If you took the suspense out of a thriller? If you took paranormal
elements out of urban fantasy? Genres have parameters for a reason. They help
readers find the books they want to read, mainly. And for a lot of romance
readers, the happy ending is what they want. They want the hope, to believe
that everything will work out.
Consider this: writers have
been publishing novels with gay characters since the early twentieth century
(at least!) but until fairly recently, the characters in those books met with
unhappy endings. Even through the eighties, AIDS was a prominent theme. In the
last 10–15 years, with the ballooning popularity of gay romance, these
characters are finally getting happy endings, and we’re sending a different
message to readers. This is true of romances involving people of color as well.
What we’re saying is: You deserve happiness, not tragedy. You deserve love. And
great things are possible.
So why would you rip that
rug out from under the romance genre? Damon Suede often calls romance “the
literature of hope.” If you want to read or write books that don’t have happy
endings, that’s great, but those novels are not genre romance. The core of
romance is hope.♥
Kate McMurray is an award-winning author of
gay romance and an unabashed romance fan. When she’s not writing, she works as
a nonfiction editor, dabbles in various crafts, and is maybe a tiny bit
obsessed with baseball. She has served as President of Rainbow Romance Writers,
the LGBT romance chapter of Romance Writers of America; and as Vice President
of RWA/NYC. She lives in Brooklyn, NY. Visit her at www.katemcmurray.com.
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I agree completely. The happy ending is something that the romance genre owns. And thank God for that. If I want unhappy endings, I can turn on the news. I want to read a story where people's love is tested, or they are challenged in some way and find a way to have their relationship prevail. I want that happy ending, that's why I pick up a romance book. And, as a romance writer, I want to spend my days bailing out my characters and challenging myself to come up with a plausible happy ending. It's a joy to write romance. And it' is fiction, not non-fiction, so it doesn't have to mirror reality. Thanks for this. Great "think' piece about romance, Kate.
ReplyDeleteI agree! There can be plenty of struggle and angst in between the beginning and end of a novel, but please let's keep the Happy Ending.
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